By H.L. Archer
When you have lost the man you were hoping to have a future with, your whole world seems to be falling apart. If you have been trying to find the best way to get your ex boyfriend back, you might have been using the wrong tactics. This is not your fault, you just need to know the most important move to make him want you again.
The day your boyfriend broke up with you was the worst day of your life. You had no idea he was unhappy and yet he was telling you he wanted to end the relationship. As he walks away, the thought of never seeing him again can be devastating. You want to run after him and tell him you will do anything to make him love you.
But, what you should do is agree with the breakup and tell him you have not been too happy either. By doing that, you are immediately taking control and he will be feeling as if you are dumping him. This will take all of your strength and you cannot let him see you cry. Men have a lot of pride and ego, and by making him feel rejected you will confuse him.
All of his well laid plans will be falling apart and as he walks away, he will be having second thoughts about the breakup. Now that you have him confused by your actions, don’t let up. You can take the time to throw yourself on your bed and kick and scream until you have it all out. But, don’t sit around and wallow in self pity. When you have let your frustration out, go take a good soaking bath.
Your next move will not be easy, but it will be the best way to get your ex boyfriend back. It will be the most important move you can make if you hope to have a future with him. Let him see you are not bothered by the breakup. Get dressed, get some friends together and go out on the town. Act like you are having a great time and flirt with some guys. When your ex hears about your activities, he will know you were not bluffing.
When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend did not intend to lose you. He wanted some time to have fun and date other women. He was sure that if things didn’t work out, you would be happy to take him back. Now, it seems you had the same thing in mind. But you are not through with him yet. You should disappear for a while. Take a trip and visit some relatives or just stay out of his sight.
The best way to make him want you again is to make your ex think he has lost you for good. When you disappear after being out having fun, he will think you might have run off with another guy. That will make him realize what an important part you have played in his life and your ex will desperately want you back. The most important move you can make after a breakup is not telling him how much you need him. It is making him see how much he needs you.
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